Low frequency, high impact
I've recently found myself diving into my daughter's curriculum, and it's been a fascinating journey. One topic that caught my attention was the frequency of waves. What made it intriguing was a simple yet captivating analogy.
Light waves are kinda like waves in the ocean. You have big waves and small waves. 🌊
Imagine sailing in a boat on a calm sea. When a big, gentle wave approaches, it moves your boat gently. You feel a soothing swing. 😇 These are the waves with low frequency but high wavelength.
Now imagine the opposite - When short, choppy waves hit your boat, it’s all jerky. You feel stressed, rushing to keep things from falling, and trying to keep yourself safe. 😱These are the waves with high frequency and short wavelength.
If I’m in a boat, I’d rather be in the sea with low-frequency waves.
Low-frequency wins even when it comes to sound. 🔉
When we hear someone speak, neurons are fired in our brains to make sense of things. What’s interesting is the difference it makes with different frequencies:
If the speaker speaks at a low frequency, the neurons of the listener match that frequency. This forms an emotional connection with the speaker, possibly through the release of hormones like serotonin and oxytocin, promoting relaxation and connection.
If someone is speaking at a high frequency, like when we are mad, 😡 neurons fired in the listener's brain can't match the high frequency. There is no emotional connection.
So when we get mad and start to speak at a high frequency, the listener might not even comprehend what the speaker is saying.
Several studies show that tone matters 70-93% more than the actual words we use!
I had a recent experience with my kids. My 15-year-old was trying to convince my 11-year-old of something, but there was no response. I used the same words but switched to a low frequency, and my son readily agreed.
Frequency plays a remarkable role in our daily interactions.
Think about those late-night FM DJs with their soothing voices. When you speak in a lower voice, the listener's brain syncs with your frequency, forming an emotional bond, just like being captivated by a soothing piano melody. 🎹
Frequency can change the emotional tone of those who hear it. Low-frequency music helps us relax and enhances focus. Deep work playlists are often composed of low-frequency tunes, known for their healing effects. Even plants respond positively to low-frequency music, promoting growth. 🌱
The Earth itself has a frequency known of 8 Hz. Tuning our surroundings to its multiples is believed to connect us better with the natural world. 🌏🌳
With all this knowledge about frequencies, one practical takeaway is to avoid speaking at a high frequency. It not only annoys the listener but also makes you practically inaudible to them.
Let's practice speaking in low frequency and high wavelength, that is, soft tones with a higher impact. It's a small change that can make a big difference in our communication.
Keep exploring the world of frequencies, and who knows you’ll discover a whole new dimension of connection and understanding.